So now you have asked for it.!!!
You have decided to read this piece and i am sure you will only be too happy after you have finished .
Well to start with I will tell you to play a game.
Believe me it's simple and currently i am trying it out with both my kids for the last two days.Yes!kids can also be involved and asked to participate-good for the whole family.
To cut it short,let me tell you the rules.
RULE 1
Start by talking with each other-kids/spouse/parents/siblings--on any topic--preferably when most of the members of the house are present.
RULE 2
You can use any words other than the words indicating or expressing any form of negativity.
RULE 3
Anybody who uses a negative word is out of the game.The person who stays on is the winner.
HINT
See basically there are various ways in which you can express your views.
eg.
1)Don't watch T.V now and go and do your H.W.
can be expressed as
It will be better if you do your H.W first and then watch T.V.
.
2)I don't get enough time to read the newspaper
can become
I will try and find time to read the newspaper from today.
So all the donts becomes do or some other positive expression.
Think of a house deserted for a long time that is badly in need of repair and every nook and corner of it is covered with dust and cobwebs.For some reason you want to make it habitable again .On entering you will want to open all doors and windows to let fresh air in.Then you will start the process of thorough cleansing.It will be made beautiful with pleasing fittings ,comfortable furniture.
The removal of unwanted dust (negativity's)and bringing in new possessions(positives)gives joy and comfort to the occupants -to-be.
I feel that all negative values can be shed through consistent efforts and the process once started with firm determination can give wonderful results.
A positive mind rejoices ,loves,forgives,and is ever ready to give.
A constant vigilance over our thought process I believe will ensure the desired transformation.
You have decided to read this piece and i am sure you will only be too happy after you have finished .
Well to start with I will tell you to play a game.
Believe me it's simple and currently i am trying it out with both my kids for the last two days.Yes!kids can also be involved and asked to participate-good for the whole family.
To cut it short,let me tell you the rules.
RULE 1
Start by talking with each other-kids/spouse/parents/siblings--on any topic--preferably when most of the members of the house are present.
RULE 2
You can use any words other than the words indicating or expressing any form of negativity.
RULE 3
Anybody who uses a negative word is out of the game.The person who stays on is the winner.
HINT
See basically there are various ways in which you can express your views.
eg.
1)Don't watch T.V now and go and do your H.W.
can be expressed as
It will be better if you do your H.W first and then watch T.V.
.
2)I don't get enough time to read the newspaper
can become
I will try and find time to read the newspaper from today.
So all the donts becomes do or some other positive expression.
Think of a house deserted for a long time that is badly in need of repair and every nook and corner of it is covered with dust and cobwebs.For some reason you want to make it habitable again .On entering you will want to open all doors and windows to let fresh air in.Then you will start the process of thorough cleansing.It will be made beautiful with pleasing fittings ,comfortable furniture.
The removal of unwanted dust (negativity's)and bringing in new possessions(positives)gives joy and comfort to the occupants -to-be.
I feel that all negative values can be shed through consistent efforts and the process once started with firm determination can give wonderful results.
A positive mind rejoices ,loves,forgives,and is ever ready to give.
A constant vigilance over our thought process I believe will ensure the desired transformation.
ya its true, but i think its easier said than done. we have so much of negativity around us, i always try to start my day on a positive note, but some how during the day, i never even realise it,negetive things starts creeping in the mind.but atleast we could try to change this attitude and make our kids a positive person.it is afterall worth a try. what do u say?
ReplyDeleteshweta
ReplyDeletetrying to keep up with positivity is in itself praiseworthy.rest everything will follow.